It’s not okay, but it will be.



Our little former micropreemie, C, is now in intermediate school.





She was only two when I first started writing in this space. Now,- she’s a fourth grader.


This was the first year since we moved to Connecticut that she attended a new school. Two years of preschool, [...]

Ignorance is, indeed, bliss.



I did not substitute teach on the first day of school.


I was home for the day and able to get my kiddos both on and off of the bus, which is always a nice treat when they’re starting something new. I took the obligatory photos, welcomed back the drivers, and confirmed [...]

How Honoring Varying Choices & Methods Supports Preemie Parents



November is Prematurity Awareness Month. That makes this a good time to talk a little bit about preemie stuff. I get asked frequently how people can help support preemie mom and dads, so I’m going out on a limb and sharing some ideas you may never have thought of.



Even [...]

Making the Decision to Pass in Arms



It’s not easy.


I guess that’s what I really want you all to know. It’s just not as simple as it sounds. But let me back up a bit…


When I tell C’s birth story, I can typically tell it in under two minutes. To be honest, as much as I [...]

A Weighty Issue



I took G. in for her five-year-old well-child visit yesterday. I’m guessing it will suprise no one to learn that she is a very healthy little girl.


In many ways, G. is the child about whom we’ve had the fewest worries. She was born full-term, has had no developmental delays, and seems [...]

Shame, Value, and Skinniness



People make fun of my middle child for her size.


No, she’s not overweight. No, she’s not of Amazon height. No, she’s not the shortest kid in school.


She’s just… well, skinny.



(See? I’ve always fed her. Even when she stole my food when I was [...]

Parents Magazine Announces Top 10 Children’s Hospitals for Preemie Care 2013

Drumroll, please!


I feel like it hasn’t been too long since I shared the latest US NICU rankings with you all, but that’s probably because I was slacking last time.


The new findings by Parents magazine have been released and I’ve got ‘em for you. Our beloved Riley is back on [...]

Top 10 United States NICUs: 2012 Edition

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Ever curious how your local NICU measures up against the rest of the nation? Wondering if that AMAZING hospital that saved your baby looks as good on paper as it did in real life?


Well, this one’s for you. According to U.S. New & World Report, these are the current front-runners [...]

FAQs About Little Ones in Contact Lenses

I’ve had a child in contact lenses for a couple years now. And she’s not yet seven.


This is sometimes often shocking to people. I get lots of incredulous looks and tons of questions. So, just in case you’ve had some of the same queries, I thought I’d go ahead and address some [...]

When Your Child Isn’t "Typical"

This little one- my C.- is kind of crazy. She’s stubborn and silly and sometimes, quite honestly, maddening. There are times she acts helpless and whiny and that is like nails on a chalkboard to me. And, so, sometimes I forget…

She is tough.

She just doesn’t have to prove it everyday like she did [...]